The First Holiday With Cloth Diapers and How to Survive

The title may mislead you a bit, because this isn't necessarily a guide on how to handle your cloth diaper situation as you travel. That topic has been covered with more security than an all in one on a wriggling baby's bum, and of course there are a plethora of YouTube videos by knowing moms available to you. No, this is a different type of survival guide, because we all know the winter holidays often bring along stress to complement the snowy weather. In the next two months, you're likely visiting relatives, or they're coming to you, and especially if this is baby's first Thanksgiving and Christmas you're going to be bombarded with questions.

Some of them, to your ear, may take on a condescending tone. What are these things? Where are the real diapers? I gotta head to the store to pick up extra napkins, you want me to get some Huggies? Now, if your extended family supports your decision to cloth diaper your child, that's terrific! You can spend more time instead arguing about football or defending why you haven't friended Aunt Bea on Facebook yet. For the rest of you, the second baby needs that first change of the day you may encounter some odd reactions, particularly if you're away from home.

First thing to remember: don't get defensive. Older relatives could be difficult to read - your parents and grandparents likely used cloth, but also could hold the mindset that disposables present a more convenient solution for modern moms and dads. It's not uncommon, either, for a new parent to come under scrutiny by every armchair child expert in the house. People mean well, but it doesn't always come out flattering in speech. If you find the remarks on cloth are misinformed, take a deep breath and defend your position, in a calm and pleasant manner.

The big issue, for some, may boil down to storage. With a wet disposable it's no big deal - you wrap it up and take it outside to the outdoor garbage can, away from the turkey and pie. Cloth covers stay with you, and even though you're prepared with your durable wet diaper bag and laundry materials, non-cloth folks may still require some education. If you'd prefer to keep your holiday visit free from conflicts, it's good to do a bit of preparation so everybody is comfortable and can enjoy your baby.

As you make plans for overnight and lengthy visits to family or friends, let them know in advance that you're bringing cloth diapers and supplies. If your host isn't familiar with how cleaning works (because some people might blanch at the thought of poopy diapers in their washing machine), simply explain what you do with regards to cleaning, including the toilet pre-dunk so they'll know you're not just pitching a load of baby mess into their washer.

If you find there is resistance, however, offer to make a trip to the nearest Laundromat (and get out Google Maps just in case) but also offer a demonstration once you arrive. The big selling point of the cloth diaper is the ease of use as well as the cost efficiency. Show your enthusiasm, and you stand not only to convince family of the good of cloth, but maybe you'll convert a sibling or cousin who is expecting.

Above all else, enjoy your family and the time your baby spends with them. Careful not to overdose on pie.

Kathryn Lively is a freelance writer specializing in articles on cloth diapers and green parenting tips.

Do Disposable Diapers Make Potty Training Harder?

Yes, I think disposable diapers make potty training harder. If you look at the average age a child was potty trained even just a generation ago, you can see that kids now take a lot longer to give up the diaper in exchange for using the potty. Let's take a look at some of the reasons that modern disposable diapers make it harder for your child to be potty trained and what you can do to make it easier on him or her.

One of the biggest improvements that has been made in the disposable diaper industry over the last decade, is how quickly the diapers absorb moisture. The obvious advantage of this is that it keeps baby's skin try and prevents diaper rash. The disadvantage is that your child does not feel when he or she gets wet. There is no uncomfortable wet and squishy thing hanging around his bottom. Everything is perfectly dry and comfortable. So why should your child bother with a potty if there is nothing wrong with peeing and pooping in his diaper.

The disposable diaper industry has of course picked up on this fact and is not catering to the parents of 3 to 5 year olds. We see pictures of children in this age group on diaper packages, baby and parenting magazines and of course in the diaper company ads. Which brings us to reason number two why children are getting potty trained later.

It has become socially acceptable to have an older child use diapers. Preschools and Day Care Centers are now catering to the parents of these children by allowing children to attend who are not completely potty trained. There is no social pressure on parents at all to get their child potty trained. Combined with the fact that the diapers don't feel wet anymore, it is easy for parents to miss the moment when their child is ready to give the potty a try.

So, what other options do you have as a parent? You could use cloth diapers for a while to make sure your child feels when he is wet, or let him go in regular underwear with a pair of protective plastic panties over it. If the weather allows, let him run around bare bottom outside, or do the same inside, keeping a close eye on him so you can drag him to the bathroom when needed.

Other than that, just give potty training a try every once in a while. Sooner or later you will catch the right time and get your little one potty trained.

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A Parents' Potty Training Manual

If you have a toddler, you have most likely been asked the standard question, "Is she potty trained yet?" Even more likely is that your answer is no! Ultimately toilet learning will not be achieved unless your child is ready. This usually occurs when a child is 18 to 24 months of age. However, it is not uncommon for a child to still be in diapers at 2 and a half to 3 years of age.

Most kids don't start potty training until they're at least 2 years old. In fact, recent statistics show that at least a third of all American children are still in diapers after their 3rd birthday. Developmentally, kids are all over the map: Some kids are ready and eager to start as early as 18 months, while others show zero interest until they're three or four years old.

More important than your child's age are a number of other factors: Can he stay dry for at least three hours during the day? Is he able to understand and follow simple directions? Does he seem interested in "big-kid" activities, such as brushing his teeth, cleaning up his toys, and using the toilet? If so, he may be close to ready.

Other important signs of your child's readiness include:

*being able to follow simple instructions

*understands words about the toileting process

*can regulate the muscles responsible for elimination

*can signal that their diaper is wet or soiled

*expresses a need to go (verbally or through sign)

*keeps a diaper dry for three or more hours

*can get to the potty on her own

*can take off diapers or pull down underpants with minimal assistance

*wakes up dry from naps and/or in the morning

Your toddler may be showing all the signs of readiness, but did you know that you also have to be completely ready for the toilet learning process? You truly need to have the energy, patience, and time it takes to commit to this important adventure. After initial preparation and to officially begin this process, you will need to devote an intensive three to five days to your child and his toilet learning. Then, after the initial learning phase, another two to three months of continued effort on your part will be required.

We all know parenting is not easy. Getting through this developmental milestone is one great example of just how hard it is! An experienced mother of four once told me, "Being toilet trained is such an overrated accomplishment. Diapers are so easy in comparison to cleaning up after accidents, reminding them to go potty every hour, not to mention using public rest rooms! Yuck!"

If you have made the commitment to work with your child on a daily basis so that he or she can master their toilet learning skills, the next thing you are probably thinking is, "How do I actually go about potty training?" Good question! Both of you are showing signs of readiness. Here's what's next:

To Prepare:

Introduce the Concept:

*Allow your child to be present when you go to the bathroom; let them see urine and bowel movements in the toilet.

*Allow your child to observe, touch and become familiar with the toilet.

*Let your child play with flushing the toilet.

*Read books about potty time. (See below for recommendations.)

Encourage Independence:

*Buy an attachment for your bathroom's light switch so that your child can turn the light on and off without help.

*Support your child as they learn to undress and dress themselves when using the bathroom and throughout your normal daily activities.

*Encourage good hygiene and teach your child how to wipe themselves. (This is a higher level skill that will need supervision for a few years.)

*Buy a step stool for reaching the toilet and sink for hand washing and teeth brushing.

Other helpful tips:

*Consider placing a potty chair or seat on each floor of the house if you live in a multilevel home.

*Make the bathroom a fun place. Add special toilet only books and games to your routine.

*Stay with your child when he or she is on the potty chair. Reading or talking to your child when he or she is sitting on the potty may help your child relax.

*If you are training a boy, teach him how to stand and aim into the toilet. Some boys have been so impressed with this technique that they almost automatically potty train.

IMPORTANT: If your child does not seem interested or resists- STOP!! Do not force the issue. Just try again in a few weeks.

How do I teach my child to use the toilet?

First, be patient and supportive. After your child has become comfortable with the bathroom, with flushing the toilet, and with sitting on the toilet, you may begin teaching your child to go to the bathroom. Keep your child in loose, easily removable pants. Tell your child that when they need to go potty they need to tell you. Teach them the words or sign you want them to use. Place your child on the toilet whenever he or she signals the need to go to the bathroom. At first you must be aware of your child's nonverbal signs. Your child's facial expression may change when he or she feels the need to urinate or have a bowel movement. Most children have a bowel movement once a day, usually within an hour after eating. Most children urinate within 15 minutes of waking and an hour after having a large drink.

If you and your child are ready truly ready, now is the time to start potty training. Once you truly start though, you can not go back. Tell your child that diapers are for babies and that he or she is not a baby anymore. Go to the store and let your child pick out new "big kid" underwear. When you get home let your child throw away a few of their old diapers and help him put on his underwear. There is no going back. From now on your child will wear underwear.

I know what you are thinking, and yes the first few days are going to be hellish! You will clean up a lot of pee and do a lot of laundry. But this is the most effective way to teach your child how to eliminate in the appropriate place. It is important not limit your child's fluids, except an hour or two before sleeping. Your child will need to experience the feeling of the pee a few or even several times in order to understand the cause and effect of his body; you feel pressure, you let the urine out and it gets all over you unless you get to the potty in time.

If your child has an accident do not quickly rush them to the potty. You want to teach them to go before not after the have had an accident. Also, try not to change them into dry clothes right away. They need to experience the uncomfortable wetness that happens when you wet yourself. This is a learning process that may take several days. The first few days you should probably stay home, but I encourage you to go on small outing so your child can feel what it feels like to have underwear on. For example, the car seat straps will need adjusting, and using a public restroom in a totally different experience. These will all be new experiences for you and your child.

Things to avoid:

*Do not punish your child when he or she has an accident.

*Do not constantly remind or ask your child to use the potty. This may create undue pressure, and typically is met with resistance from the child.

(Note: This is also not toilet learning, this is getting your child to sit on the potty every five minutes and hopefully catching a pee before they go in their pants!)

*Do not make your child sit on the toilet against her will.

Finally, if your child is not toilet trained within 3 months, consult your family doctor to rule out any medical issues. The reason that your child has most likely not learned to use the potty is that he or she is simply just not ready. Do not get discouraged. Soon enough diapers will be a thing of the past and you will be wishing it did not all go by so fast.

Cherish these times with all of your heart, even if they do stink!

Recommended Potty Time Books

"You Can Go to the Potty" by William Sears, M.D., Martha Sears, R.N. and Renee Andriani (Illustrator)

"Everyone Poops" Written and illustrated by Taro Gomi

"Too Big for Diapers" Sesame Street Series

"First Experiences: It's Potty Time" by Holtzbrinck Publisher

Mother, early childhood educator, parent counselor, and author, Colleen Newman is degreed in Early Childhood Education and Psychology. She spent several years teaching preschoolers before the birth of her first child. As a new mother, Newman enjoyed breastfeeding and taking care of her son so much that she decided that she wanted to share her love for children and her natural parenting finesse with other parents. My Baby and More Parent Coaching and Educational Services, a home-based business started by Newman, was created in 2005. My Baby and More provides parents with the education and support of positive parenting and natural parenting methods such as breastfeeding, babywearing, and attachment parenting through one-on-one phone, email, in-home and office consultations, seminars, and classes. Newman is also a Breastfeeding Counselor for WIC and holds a certificate as a Certified Happiest Baby Educator from Dr. Harvey Karp’s Happiest Baby Program. Her latest work Near Mama's Heart, a children's book about breastfeeding has been named an instant classic.

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Disposables to Cloth Diapers: Making a Smooth Transition

One can argue, for the expectant mother, that turning immediately to disposable diapers is immediate because it's thrust upon them from the start. While one might find cloth diapers in specialty baby stores and online, disposables are stacked everywhere at Target and grocery stores and convenient markets, and in the hospital your baby is likely dressed in a disposable cut for newborns. They are the first thing a new mom sees, so by that logic it's what they use. Is it possible to make a smooth transition to cloth without tearing out your hair and giving up when the going gets rough, and messy?

In short, it is possible. When you think of the myriad of other products you use in life, you will realize you have switched brands and models in the past. Those of us who once used VHS video recorders, for example, probably had no trouble making the move to DVD or Blu-Ray. Of course, you'll ask what this has to do with diapers, since it's a different situation. The point is, with patience and a willingness to embrace the benefits cloth diapering gives your family, you can make the change and wonder why you didn't start with cloth altogether.

If you have never before used a cloth diaper, however, the transition from disposables is something best done slowly. Choose a period of time when you have no travel plans or appointments, and can stay home and become accustomed to using them. Remember, too, this is a change for your baby, so be mindful of any reaction he has to wearing one. Have a proper diaper pail or wet bag at the ready, and enough diapers and inserts to get through the day so you don't run out. Try not to switch back if possible, and chart your progress.

When you have enough soiled diapers for a laundry load, wash them and prepare for the next round. Special detergents that won't irritate are available for cleaning covers and inserts, and for especially messy diapers you can rinse them in the commode before adding to the washer.

After a few days getting accustomed to your cloth diapers, test using them outside the home. Plan a play day at a nearby park or other venue and bring along enough diapers for the trip. Travel wet bags can hold the soiled cloth without leaking odors. Once home, take the wet bag to your diaper pail to await the next wash.

Expect the occasional mishap, but don't get discouraged. You'll come to find cloth diapers are a viable alternative for keeping your baby dry and happy, and in the long run you'll save money by reducing trips to the store to buy more disposables.

Kathryn Lively is a freelance writer specializing in articles on cloth diapers and green parenting tips.

Popular Types of Tote Bags

Tote bags are defined as large bags used for shopping or carrying a multitude of things. A typical bags has a sizable storage space for amassing everyday-used paraphernalia such as make-up, books, stationery, lunches and even umbrellas. Totes have strong long bands for hauling over one's shoulders, and come in diverse substances, shapes and dimensions.

A good-quality tote bag is deemed an essential accessory for the contemporary woman. To think of life without one is unimaginable nowadays. These multi-purpose bags are one of the most convenient ways of carrying everything one needs. The perfect tote for you is out there somewhere.

For running daily errands and activities, small totes are recommended. These bags can house anything from notebooks, cell phones, keys, wallets, stationery and snacks. For specific activities like working out in a gym, choose bigger ones that can accommodate towels, an extra set of clothing, shoes and face care items.

For every possible occasion you can think of, a suitable tote is available. Some of the more popular ones are: -

• Shopping totes - can be made from canvas to other durable fabrics to house groceries and other shopping items.
• Casual everyday totes - these totes can be brought to work or for casual meetings, depending on design and materials used.
• Laptop totes - made from leather or other sustaining materials, these totes are designed to specifically accommodate laptops and with several compartments for documents.
• diaper totes - extra large in size to accommodate diapers, bottles, wet wipes and everything else a baby needs.
• Laundry totes - spacious totes made from durable cloth like canvas or polyester for you to carry laundry.
• Beach totes - usually made from washable fabric and spacious enough to hold your beach needs i.e. suntan oil, towels etc.
• Sports totes/ Shoes totes - usually unisex totes, with the exception of color choices and materials. Men's totes tend to have sharper edges with buckles and usually made of leather or suede.
• Business totes - made from supple leather or heavy canvas for an extended life.
• Travel totes - more often than not comes in muted shades to complement you carry-all luggage. Materials for these totes are heavy to ensure strength and have several side compartments to store passports, tickets and other travel essentials.
• Wine and Cheese totes - these totes are made from breathable and sturdy cotton to facilitate the storage of wine and cheese.
• Evening totes - these totes are smaller in size and bedecked with sequins with shiny finishing like satin or silk.
• Designer totes - produced by famous designers and fashion houses. They are usually quite expensive and have unique designs and come with additional compartments and pockets.
• Custom totes - the designs on these totes are often eye-catching such as liberal uses of wordings, famous characters, celebrities and tag lines.
• Personalized totes - you can have your own personalized totes embellished with your photograph, pet's pictures or anything else your heart desires.

Bear in mind that for whatever occasion necessitates a tote, you must choose one which is durable and of good quality.

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Baby Doll Accessories

For literally centuries, girls (and their mothers) have been playing with baby dolls, and baby doll accessories. Really, if the doll is completely naked - what fun is that? Dress-up, going to bed, on a trip or whatever, baby doll accessories can really make or break the baby doll experience. How can I say that? Here are some great examples.

Clothes For Baby

even though your baby doll might be a newborn or an infant and therefore isn't "capable" of lots of movement like running around, there's lots of outfits for your doll. Pajamas and nightgowns top the list - including a good set of diapers for those baby dolls that are capable of "wetting."

Then, there are day clothes for strolls in the park, and even winter clothes for really cold, wintery days. For those baby dolls that can get wet, there are swimming suits, believe it or not. And, don't forget summer - lots of light colors and breezy styles to keep baby cool.

Walkers, Strollers And More

If you think there are plenty of baby doll clothes, wait until you see how many other accessories are available! Strollers often top the list, as little girls always want to take baby for a stroll. Don't forget the special blankets to keep baby warm!

And, for the times when he or she is learning to walk, there are baby walkers to help develop those essential walking skills! As car seats have gained importance for real infants, the same happened for baby dolls - scaled-down (sometimes real scale) car seats were made and sold, so your little bundle of dolly could ride safely in the car too.

Bottles, Pacifiers and - What?

Remember the baby bottles years ago that appeared to "empty" when "fed" to the infant doll? Some of today's make-believe newborns can actually "drink" water - and pee it out! How realistic is that? And, don't forget pacifiers - some baby dolls look like they're "sucking" on their pacifier - just like real!

Really, there really is no end to what modern baby doll accessories are available - your imagination is surely the limit!

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How to Strip Cloth Diapers

Clean diapers should smell clean. If they don't, it may be time to strip them. Stripping cloth diapers is sometimes necessary to remove buildup of detergent, oils, or minerals. If you are using a cloth diaper safe detergent and avoiding rash creams, you probably won't need to strip you diapers more than every few months - if at all. If you are using a detergent that does not rinse clean or that does not work well in your water, you may need to strip your diapers as often as every month. Never, ever use fabric softener of any kind on cloth diapers. Not only do they contain toxic chemicals, they can ruin your diapers and make them stop absorbing.

When to Strip Cloth Diapers - If your cloth diapers are repelling (losing absorbency) or are smelling bad even when clean or freshly wet on, they likely need to be stripped.

Detergent Buildup - The most common reason for needing to stripping cloth diapers is detergent buildup. You'll know there is detergent buildup if your cloth diapers smell funky when they come out of the dryer or if they smell really bad (lime ammonia) when your child wets on them. Pee always has some smell to it, but if a freshly wet diaper burns your nose or a morning diaper smells extra strong, it is time to remove all the detergent buildup.

Some detergents leave residue behind, causing buildup on the fabric. Another common cause is using too much detergent for your water. In most cases you should use 1/4-1/2 the recommended amount of detergent. You'll need more detergent if you have hard water, less in soft water.

To strip detergent buildup, fill the washer with the hottest water you can and your clean diapers. You might even want to turn your hot water heater up a bit for this, but be sure to turn it back down immediately to reduce the risk of burns (safety experts recommend keeping your hot water heater set to no more than 120 degrees Fahrenheit to avoid potential disasters if small children turn the water on themselves). Then, agitate the load on the highest setting for a full cycle. Now, rinse in warm and check to see if there bubbles when the load agitates. If you see suds, there is a detergent buildup. At the end of the cycle, spin the water out and repeat until there are no more suds. This may take 3-4 washes if you have a lot of buildup. You can also add a commercial water softener to the first wash to help remove buildup (Calgon makes a readily available water softener).

If the buildup is caused by minerals, diaper rash cream, or fabric softener you may need to follow the more extensive instructions on my web site.

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What You Need To Know Before Beginning Potty Training Boys and Girls

Let's face it changing diapers is not much fun and you long to start potty training. However, this is something that can't be rushed. You have to be sure your child is ready. If you push the issue it usually ends in tears and frustrations (could be both yours and your child).

There is no golden rule that says you must begin potty training at a particular age. All children are individual. Also potty training boys can often begin later than girls and it can take longer. This article will help you evaluate whether your child is ready.

Some level of communication skills is vital. Does the child understand the meaning of basic words such as wash, dry, wet, clean, dirty, stand and sit? Can they understand and follow simple instructions such "pick up the bricks and put them in the toy box"? Or do they need added guidance or repeated instructions? Are they able to communicate their needs to you? Do they mainly point and say a few words (and you guess or interpret the rest) or can they string some meaningful words together, perhaps even sentences?

You want to see some sign that the child's bowel and urinary control functions are developing. Does the diaper need changed every one/two hours or is the child able to go two/three hours or longer without soiling the diaper.

Is your child able to sit quietly? For instance, if you were to read a story would they sit and listen attentively or would they fidget, ignore you or even wander off after a few minutes? What you are looking for is a consistent pattern not the odd occasion when they are restless.

How independent is the child? Can they do some tasks all by themselves, such as pulling up their pants? Or do they need adult assistance?

Your answers to the above questions will help you decide whether your child is ready for potty training. Remember, you should answer truthfully not give an answer you think you should.

Make no mistake about it, potty training boys and girls can be a stress free experience for both you and your child if you start when the child is ready and not before!

Penny Crane is a mother of three young boys. She runs a Mother and Toddler Club. Learn how to fast track potty training boys with no fuss and stress.

Potty Training in 3 Days?

"Potty Training in 1 to 3 Days" is a great resource for any parent ready to begin or struggling to potty train their toddler. The whole process can be difficult especially on a busy parent juggling career and family. This solution was created for your toddler to learn training in the least amount of time. This system will solve any issues such as resistant or difficult toddlers with solid techniques that will help the child conquer his fears. This system will benefit you in two ways free you from messy diaper changes and save you money.

This is a proven system. It offers a simple and easy to understand solution to end your frustration. This resource explains the concept of "diaper dependence". "diaper dependence" means the disposable diaper technology doesn't allow a child to feel the sensation of being wet so the child doesn't feel the necessity or desire to get out of the diaper and onto a potty seat. Potty training is delayed well over a year in our society with the technology of disposable diapers. This significant delay hurts your child and exposes your child to possible health risks.

This system cites six reasons to avoid "diaper dependence". The six reasons are health issues, psychological issues, financial costs of disposable diapers, waste of your valuable time, trainability and environmental issues.

• Health issues such as retentive encopresis or commonly known as uncontrolled pant soiling. Retentive Encopresis is associated with unresolved constipation issues and usually occurs in children around the age range of 3-4 years old or older. This condition results in the stretching of the lower intestines from hardened stools and the child may no longer have the urge to defecate. Delayed potty and bowel training increases the risk of this medical condition occurring.


• Psychological issues such as the embarrassment and humiliation from other children teasing and laughing at a child still wearing diapers.


• Financial burden buying thousand of dollars in disposable diapers, wipes and creams.


• Waste of your valuable time spent changing your child's soiled diapers.


• Trainability meaning as the child ages they become more resistant to change.


• Environmental issues are created as disposable diapers are a growing problem in landfills today.

This complete training system can be downloaded. You can listen on your computer, an i-pod or any other MP3 compatible audio device available. You can listen anywhere and anytime so you can implement everything you have learned and not waste another minute of time. This system makes potty training a rewarding experience for both you and your child. The signs of readiness is explained so you will able to identify when your child is ready to begin the process. This system offers expert guidance every step of the way. Follow the exact steps outlined in this system and within 72 hours your child will be potty trained.

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Letitia Pope is a stay at home mother of four children, two boys and two girls ages 17, 9, 8, and 6 years old. Her husband has been disabled and blind since February 2008 after being diagnosed with a life-threatening brain tumor. She opted to leave the dead end 9 to 5 job to be a full time mom. The decision was the best decision she made. It was the best decision she made because the stress of the job, caring for her husband and her children was too much. She loves working at home, it gives her extra time to devote to her children and her husband's needs. She is able to concentrate on their needs as well as her own. It's an excellent way to spend quality time with the family and it saves money on gas.

She loves to read mysteries, inspirational books, short stories and fiction novels. She enjoys writing poetry and short stories. She enjoys watching tennis, basketball and football. She enjoys playing video games in her spare time. She is an avid Sims 3 fan.

She works at home on various online projects such as Legitimate Online Opportunities. It takes work and dedication, but the end result is worth the hard work and effort.

5 Effective Potty Training Tips

If you are having some problems patty training your toddler, you need to take a deep breath and remain calm. The potty training problems will only be short term and you will require some patience for a little while longer. Have a look at these 5 effective potty training tips.

Potty Training Tip 1

Even though it may seem your toddler is doing their best not to join in with your potty training lessons, fear not as they will soon pick it up. Yes, it is important that your toddler is potty trained but every child learns at a different speed. Be prepared to wait a little longer with the potty training if required but they will learn.

Potty Training Tip 2

Your toddler needs to experience discomfort. What do I mean by this? If you are frequently using diapers and 'pull ups', your kids will never know how uncomfortable it feels in wet clothes as diapers and 'pull ups' absorb any urine. Give them a chance to learn for themselves the horrible sensation of wet pants. They won't like it and will soon realize what the potty is for.

Potty Training Tip 3

Try to use natural praise and encouragement instead of stickers when potty training. By doing this, your toddler will start to feel good about themselves and their self confidence will be boosted so much that potty training will become natural and less effort.

Potty Training Tip 4

This is more 'hands on' for your toddler. During potty training, if an accident occurs, ask your child to help with cleaning up. This may include changing bed sheets or washing their clothes. Whilst cleaning, explain (in a nice way) the situation and thank them for helping. Taking part in the clean up routine during potty training will have a positive impact on your toddler.

Potty Training Tip 5

Having your little one help with your small house work chores can make them feel more grown up. Try to make clearing up fun and remember to thank and praise them for helping. Remind them that this is what 'grown ups' do and they will feel a little more mature inside.

In turn, they will be eager to learn new skills and completing the potty training will be one of them.

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Learning That All Children Are Not Alike

I am learning that as a mother of two young children, that they are very different. Even though, they are close in age and are close as a sister and brother can be, they are so many differences between the two.

My little girl, who is now almost 4, is just learning to be independent. Before she wanted everyone to do everything for her. She still has those days. She would rather you do it than for her to waste her time. She is a lot slower at learning things, or maybe it is her stubborn streak. She learned to walk later and talk later than I wanted her to. Now I am not saying she has a learning disability, it was me being a new mother and thinking she should be farther along. She also was not around other kids until my son came along and so she had no other kids to learn from. Looking back, I was probably pushing her. Also, I just got her potty trained. She just was not ready. Now she is a very light eater, sometimes hardly eating anything all day, even when we try to make her. She fought sleep bad when she was younger. She hated to be laid down for naps.

My little boy, who is almost 2, is already very independent. He wants to do things on his own when he can. He learned to walk earlier and talk earlier than my little girl. He talks almost as good as she does now. He is eating me out of groceries every week. Boy can he eat. He even eats off of her plate. He has never had trouble laying down for naps. He is already showing signs of knowing that he is wet and has a dirty diaper. He is just very independent.

Although, they are different, they are close and where one goes, you will usually find the other one. It is good for them to be different, I just had to learn that as a mother. I am glad that they have their own little quirks.

I am a mother of two young children who are the highlight of my life. I wish I could stay home with them all the time. I am trying to make a better life for them.

Toilet Training Tips - 5 Tips For Toilet Training Boys

Toilet training can be a breeze for some children and more challenging for others. Your child's success in learning how to use the toilet can depend on how you react and handle the process. It is going to require you to have patience and consistency for their success and your sanity.

Approach toilet-training as an exciting and fun thing they are learning and not a dreaded task. From a toddler's perspective, learning to use the toilet is for big boys and is a sign they are growing. This can explain why the desire to stay little makes some children more resistant.

o Make sure you son is physically and emotionally ready. Usually between 18 and 24 months you'll notice signs of readiness.

o Start out toilet training boys sitting down it is much easier.

o Set up a regular routine. The best time for a bowel movement is around twenty minutes after a meal. Let your son sit on the potty after a meal- preferably after breakfast-so he gets into a daily toileting routine.

o Help them make a Connection between the feeling to have to go and what to tell you. As soon as you notice the about-to-go signs, query, "Go poo-poo? Or pee? Tell mommy or daddy. You are teaching him when he feels the urge, he says the words.

o Don't let you son become diaper dependent. Use cloth training pants as often as possible. diapers have been made to be so absorbent that boys and girls are not uncomfortable after they have wet themselves.

There are a more signs of readiness for toilet training boys you want to look for prior to starting, or you will be wasting your time. Toilet Training boys doesn't have to be difficult when you use patience and consistency.

What to Know Before You Buy Cloth Diapers

Recently a member of my Mothers of Preschoolers group announced that she uses cloth diapers. At first I thought she was crazy, but then she told us a little about them. First off, they are not as thick and bulky as they used to be, and they come in all sorts of colors, and patterns. Many companies make them, and offer inserts that you leave in the diaper, and when the baby has gone number two you just take the insert out and either throw away or wash. That makes cleaning up a lot faster. Our MOPS member went through a specific company, but since that meeting I have found many more online. Here are some tips, ideas, and other facts I have learned about cloth diapering.

There are several different kinds of cloth diapers. They are:

All In Ones

Diaper Doublers or Liners

Fitted Diapers

Pre-folded Diapers

Flat or Square Diapers

Hemp, Sherpa, or Wool Diapers

Polar Fleece

Pocket Diapers

Snap to fits

Soakers

Possibly more, but these I have seen on many sites. Every person has a different need for cloth diapering, and with so many different kinds out there it is nice to have such a choice. I have purchased a few different ones, in my search for cloth diapering. My favorite is the all in one, most likely because it is the easiest to use, it isn't expensive, it just isn't cheap, though it is cheaper than repeatedly buying disposables. I hope that wasn't too confusing. Pocket Diapers are nice also, but I think they look funny, and Snap to fits I think are nice because they can fit for such a long time, we bought cloth diapers that fit our 2 year old and our 6 month old at the same time.

Another thing I learned is that so many moms make cloth diapers, and they are not terribly hard to make, but it is important to use the right kind of fabric on the inside to keep it from wetting through. There are always covers that can be added to the diapers, but I do not like the concept of covers. There isn't anything wrong with them, it is just a personal preference. I do like that you can make covers out of almost any fabric though, so babies can look very cool in the summer in their cute, homemade cloth diapers. I have also read that there can be an asthmatic reaction to disposable diapers, and the products and chemicals in them are not good for the baby's skin, not to mention they end up going to the dump and can not be reused.

Cloth diapers themselves have come a long way, and now there are even some different accessories to make cloth diapering even easier. Wet bags, a bag that doesn't let the smell through can be used in the diaper bag to hold dirty diapers, liners can be rewashed or some even flushed with the baby's number 2 potty in them, and there are bags and holders for the home, like bigger wet bags, and there are still buckets, and even homemade wipes can be made for those who are really into it.

I like cloth diapering because it lets you use an olden days method, that obviously worked for hundreds of years, and is better for the baby anyways. Just getting past the initial cost can be a bit difficult especially if you are on one income, but just remembering that you can later resell the diapers on Ebay for about 75% of the cost you put into them might help that worry. And really it isn't like you get any of that disposable diaper money back, right?

Now that you know the pros and cons of cloth diapering, it would be a good idea to check them out yourselves, I have many sites listed on my website that sell cloth diapers and other interesting products for babies, and mommies, through pregnancy and infancy. Come check them out, you won't be sorry.

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Steps to Change a Baby's Diaper

Changing a baby's diaper may seem to be an easy task for some of the parents out there, but I'm sure they are still parents who want to understand more about the way to change a baby's diaper efficiently. diaper's are basically a baby's toilet, all form of excretion are done through the diaper. Changing diaper's can be very simple if basic procedures are followed, everything you've done is worth it once you see the smile on your baby's face.

Before changing a baby's diaper, You need to prepare several things to aid the process of diaper changing. Here are some items that are required: fresh new diapers, wet wipes, a diaper changing table,terry cloth towel and a nappy bin. Of course they are some other items that may come in handy, even though it is optional, it is definitely advisable. Some examples are: talcum powder, diaper-rash ointments and baby cornstarch powder.

After gathering all the required items, the last thing to have is of course a baby. First, Put the fresh new diapers on the diaper changing table, it can also be on top of a towel or any form of cloth to provide more comfort for the baby. After that, place the baby on top of the fresh new diaper. To be exact, the tummy of the baby faces upwards while the buttock faces the diaper. The old diaper is now required to be unfasten and be taken off the baby with a gentle manner. Next, clean the baby's buttock with wet wipes. Holding both the baby's leg up high can aid the process of the cleaning process. Bear in mind that if your baby is a female, do carefully clean her labia and her vagina area because there is a possibility that the female baby will get stools there. Gently clean the baby's buttock area, including the lower back and thigh areas.

At this stage, your baby should be nicely cleaned and be on top of the clean diaper. Use the terry cloth towel to pat dry your baby's buttock area to ensure that the area cleaned is in a dry status. You can now apply some diaper-rash ointment or some talcum powder on your baby's buttock area, it is optional and apply it only when it is necessary. Powder helps protect the baby from getting unwanted rashes due to perspiration. When your baby is nice and clean, this is where the fresh new diaper plays its role. Help your baby in to the fresh new diapers, make sure that the back part of the diaper is pulled up high enough to prevent leakage. The best position the front diaper should be is the position right under the baby's abdomen. The final step is of course bringing the tabs from the back and fastening them to the front of the diaper. There you have it, Isn't easy to change your baby's diaper? Changing a baby's diaper is a very good experience for new parents. It is also possible to make this process in to a game of peek-a-boo to ease the process of diaper changing, the baby won't even notice that you are changing diapers for them because they are too distracted by the game!

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Shelving Solutions For the Home With Kids

Even the most tidy of couples can find themselves surrounded by clutter once they have children. Their once immaculate home, with nothing out of place, can gradually turn into a scene of mayhem when children come on the scene. Then, the older they get, the worse it gets. It seems all they can do is look forward to the day it is just the two of them again.

There is no need for it to be that bad. In fact, tidy parents will probably do a good job of keeping their children's rooms tidy, too. Some, though, may falter and give up in despair. Having children in the home is, at the very least, a bit of a challenge if you want to maintain that spick and span home you might have been used to as a childless couple. So, how do you go about arranging things so the arrival of children does not disrupt your home organization too much?

Pre-planning before a baby arrives is a good idea. For many, it is a priority. When designing the nursery, try to plan well ahead. Not just for the baby, but bearing in mind that baby will become a toddler, a boisterous infant at school, and later a teenager. OK, you may not want to jump ahead that far, but you can probably and sensibly plan for those pre-teen years to a degree.

It is probably best to aim to always have enough storage space in their room for all of the child's clothes, books, and toys. For the baby stage, storage room for diapers, wet wipes and all the other paraphernalia of bringing up a newborn baby. Some of the modern plastic storage boxes can be multi purpose, and be stacked. They may start out full of baby things then be adapted for toys as a child grows. Similarly, cabinets and shelves can be multi purpose.

The important thing is for there be enough storage space for a growing baby, not just for their first few months. You may not want to add additional shelving solutions months later, with the extra dust that might entail. It is best to get them in before the baby is born, then their bedroom need not be disturbed again for a long time.

Once the baby is a toddler and understands what's going on, try to get them trained early to put away their toys and generally clear up after them. If you make a habit of doing so before they are capable of doing it themselves, then their watching you will help prepare them for the time they must do it themselves, or at least help you.

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Prevent Baby Rashes With Diaper Ointment

It is a common occurrence for babies to get diaper rash. If the rash goes untreated, it can become very serious and will cause a lot of pain and discomfort for your baby. There are ways to prevent diaper rash and ways to treat it if it occurs. Follow these tips to prevent diaper rash from occurring.

Using diaper ointments during diaper changes is the best way to prevent a rash from flaring up. Using ointments puts a protective layer between the diaper and your baby's skin. Natural products are the best to use because there aren't any harsh chemicals. Artificial fragrances in products that aren't organic can irritate skin. Ointment will soften your baby's skin and protect it.

Another prevention tip that should be followed is to change your baby's diaper often. Leaving a diaper on for long amounts of time will cause irritation and can lead to chronic rashes and yeast infections. Ideally you should change your baby's diaper every two hours. If you find that your baby's diaper isn't wet after two hours, space out the changes to every three of four hours. When diapers stay wet for too long, that is when they start to cause rashes.

Try changing diaper brands to prevent rashes from occurring. It is a parent's personal choice to use cloth or disposable diapers for their baby. However, if you are noticing that disposable diapers are causing rashes and you've tried different types of brands, you should switch to cloth diapers. If you are already using cloth diapers, be sure to clean them well. Try not to use detergents that are too heavily perfumed. An old trick for cleaning cloth diapers is to add vinegar to the rinse cycle.

To prevent diaper rash, you should also clean your baby well during a diaper change. Be careful about what you are using to clean with too. Avoid using wipes that are scented; unscented wipes will cause less irritation. If the wipes are too harsh or cause rashes, use warm water to clean your baby. Babies' skin is so sensitive that even mild soaps can cause irritation.

A little fresh air never hurt anyone, as the saying goes. This is true for babies as well and it's another tip to preventing rash. When possible, let your baby run free without a diaper. Fresh air will help dry your baby's skin.

Following these tips, using diaper ointment and other preventative measures will keep your baby rash free.

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Tips For Curing An Infant's Yeast Infection

Yeast infections not only attack men and women, but also children. In fact, infants generally develop thrush or yeast infection in the mouth, and seldom anywhere else in the body.

Parents usually consider this thrush to be some misconception in the development of the child. However this is far from the truth as it is very much possible for a child too to suffer from an overgrowth of Candida, as is an adult. This yeast infection can occur anywhere in the body, basically where there is a warm and wet environment.

A wet diaper is the perfect breeding place for a yeast infection

It is basically the diaper area that is most susceptible to yeast infections as this area is not only wet, but is also heated up with the heat of the body. So to help control this discomfort in the toddler, it is better to keep the baby as clean and as dry as possible with frequent changing of diapers. This is very important during the summer months when there is increased heat because of climatic conditions.

Of course, between male and female babies, it is the baby girl that is more susceptible to yeast e infections, as are women and girls. This is because females havmore folds in the body where Candida thrives in and of course because of the diapers.

Boys are susceptible to yeast infections only because of diapers. So basically, make it a point to change diapers as soon as possible for the longer the diaper rubs against the skin, the higher is the possibility of a y east infection.

Besides keeping the baby as clean and dry as possible to control Candida overgrowth, there are other steps that can be used for preventing and curing infant yeast infection. Another common reason that triggers a yeast infection is an antibiotic regimen.

Avoid unnecessary antibiotics to prevent yeast infections

This is because antibiotics basically kill the natural bacterial flora found in the body, which is responsible for containing Candida. So unnecessary antibiotics in the body only leads to unnecessary killing of this necessary flora.

Once the child suffers from thrush, there is the possibility of the infant yeast infection spreading to other areas like the genital area. This is because Candida tends to pass through the digestive tract, to accumulate at the excretion site.

Approach the doctor at the first signs of a yeast infection

Of course, in addition to all this, an untreated diaper rash leads to an overgrowth of Candida; so don't just sit there thinking that the diaper rash will disappear on its own. Make sure you visit the doctor, and treat the rash in such a way that it is not exacerbated by itching and burning of an infant yeast infection.

Once you recognize the tell tale signs of a yeast infection in the baby, seek advice from the child's physician as it is always better to control the condition in the start, than when it becomes worse.

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Popular Items to Put in Gift Baskets - Gourmet, Baby, Beauty, Pet Products and More

When it comes to putting together gift baskets there is an almost endless variety of products that you may consider including. Below we have outlined some common themes that are popular in the industry but you may find that there is also a market for your own, unique ideas.

Gourmet Food

Possibly the largest sector of the market, gourmet food baskets may include chocolates, wine, cheeses and crackers, expensive tinned goods such as caviar and jars of up-market pickled foods such as olives or sun-dried tomatoes. Organic food is always increasing in popularity. While you can include perishable items such as breads, cakes, meats and fruits you should also have options that are made up entirely of non-perishable goods (or goods that don't expire for a few months at least).

Bathroom and Beauty Products

Popular with women, gift baskets along these lines include items such as scented soaps, skincare products, aromatherapy products, perfumes and candles to name a few.

Baby Gift Baskets

The perfect gift for a baby shower, these baskets include diapers, baby clothes, wet wipes, baby food, toys and other items that parents of a newborn baby would find useful or even humorous. With a pink option for girls, a blue option for boys, and a white option for the 'not sure yet crowd' these baskets have become very popular in recent years.

Themed Baskets for Different Holidays

Gift Basket businesses do an incredible amount of business over holiday periods and customers will often want a basket that suits the holiday or season. Put together special baskets for holidays such as Valentines Day or Christmas that are made up of gift items and packaging that is relevant.

Pet Gift Baskets

Some people treat their dogs very well these days. To brighten up their day (and the dogs) or for a doggie birthday, pet related gift baskets are all the rage. The product mix will of course include dog foods and treats, toys and other pet accessories.

Beverages

If you know someone that has a preference for coffee, tea or alcoholic beverages you can put together a basket that encompasses these things and more. Just be sure that you are complying with local regulations if you are selling gift baskets containing alcohol.

Customized Baskets

Some customers like to have a lot of input into their order so you many consider allowing them to customize their own basket. Let them choose from a variety of basket sizes, shapes and colors and let them view the full range of products that you stock so they can choose the combination that appeals to them. Finally you can give the client options in the way that the basket is wrapped and presented.

These are just some of the basket concepts that have been more popular. You can offer to personalize a basket for anyone by finding out a little more about their interests and combining items related to their job, lifestyle or hobbies into a themed basket.

To run a successful gift basket business you should offer the time-tested favorites that are in demand and put your own unique style on them. Offer the customer a selection of the baskets that you know they are looking for and then throw in a few more original designs into the mix to surprise them.

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Is Your Child Wetting the Bed? Don't Worry, It's Normal

The majority of children, within the first year of sleeping without a diaper on, will wet the bed. It is not abnormal, and like I previously stated, they should grow out of the habit in a year at most.

Research has shown that little boys are more likely to wet their bed than little girls. Although they should be out of the habit within a year, it is possible for this to occur until they reach the age of ten. Unfortunately, this is when it becomes embarrassing for the child and emotionally harming because when their friends find out, it is possible that they will be made fun of - especially when it comes to having sleepovers at a friend's house.

But if your child continues to wet the bed after a year has passed, you, as a parent, should look into a deeper meaning as to why he or she is still having this problem. Be sure to never embarrass your child...always have a positive attitude because it is very probably that they can not help it! The main cause of bed wetting, in my opinion, is that the child is just a heavy sleeper.

For most people, there is a warning in your unconscious state of dreaming that lets you know that you have to use the restroom. But many kids are deep sleepers, and do not even notice the signal sometimes. Therefore, they do not get up to use the bathroom, and end up wetting the bed. A great solution to this problem is to limit the amount of liquids your child drinks before going to bed. Try to decrease the amount when it comes to about 2 hours before bed time. This way, they will have less liquid in their bladder throughout the night and therefore less of a chance of wetting the bed.

Ronald Timmonds has been writing about children and other topics since 2003. He currently writes about Baby Gift Cards and the Graco Pack And Play. For more information, check his websites.

Thunder: A Jonas Brothers Story Ch. 112 ~Season Finale!!!~

I'm so ready. I've already got a few chapters written :) So, I wasn't gonna post until tomorrow, but I was so euphoric that I finally finished my 12 page bug research paper, I decided I would give it to ya now :D Enjoy! Ch. 112 Tina's POV "Where'd they go?" Kevin asked Nick when we walked out on the porch. "They left about twenty minutes ago on a walk." I looked out at the pouring rain, seeing two dots slowly growing larger. When they got back, they were both soaking wet, but Alina was beaming. "You gave it to her!" I yelled, doing a little dance. Joe nodded, and Alina's smile grew wider. Joe was holding her left hand in his. He lifted it up, showing the sparkling ring on her finger. I felt tears form in my eyes. I ran to the two of them, engulfing them in a hug. "Am I the only one hopelessly confused?" Brenna asked. "Nope," Nick and Kevin both replied. "Is that an engagement ring?" Nick asked, standing up. He took Alina's hand and examined the ring. "Pre-engagement ring," Joe corrected, looking at Alina lovingly and kissing her. "Aww..." Brenna and I said. "You should go inside," Kevin said. "You'll get sick in those wet clothes. "Oh, Kevin. You're such a great brother," Alina said, hugging him. He smiled, hugging her back. When we went inside, Alina and Joe went upstairs to shower (presumably together). Kevin's phone rang and he went into the kitchen to talk. He came back out. "It's Christina, Vicky, and Callie. They want to talk to everyone." He put his phone on ...

There Are Seven Steps to Potty Training

When your child begins the process of potty training, you might realize that there are actually seven steps in the process. It begins as soon as you notice the signs of readiness that your child is showing. These signs include:

-Your child showing an interest in the toilet.
-Your child showing the need to use the potty.
-Your child being able to dress and undress themselves.
-Your child is uncomfortable being in a wet diaper.
-Your child is able to stay dry for two hours or more.
-Your child shows an interest in 'big boy' or 'big girl' underwear.
-Your child has regular bowel movements in the day/week.

Once your child shows these signs of readiness, it is time to introduce them to the potty. It is not necessary to force them to use the potty for each urination or bowel movement, however, it would be wise to place them on the toilet for about five minutes a day. This way, they will feel comfortable with being on the toilet when it comes time to actually use it. Soon enough, your child will begin to actually use the potty instead of their diapers. Eventually, they will even be able to use it without your help or the help of any other adults (and without the potty seat).

The last stage of potty training occurs when your child is able to use the toilet when they are away from home, without needing the help of other adults. Some children will go through this process very easily, while others may take a few weeks to complete it. It is important that you are very patient with your child/children and put all of your effort and much dedication into this process so that the results are as good as possible.

Ronald Timmonds has been writing about children and other topics online since 2003. He currently writes about Baby Gift Cards and the Graco Pack And Play. For more information check out his websites.