For new mothers especially, the tendency toward guilt whenever something goes wrong with your baby's care can overwhelm you if you're not careful. You might think that for every time your child cries, or suffers an irritation like diaper rash, you are somehow at fault. Know this, however: these minor speed bumps in child-rearing are perfectly normal, and are not necessarily a result of neglect or improper care. As you approach parenting with a positive attitude, armed with a calm and willingness to learn about what your baby needs, you can work past guilty feelings and enjoy motherhood.
diaper Rash: Cause and Effect
More common causes of this reddening irritation that effects babies' sensitive skin in the buttocks, genitals, and inner thigh area include:
- An ill-fitting diaper, usually applied too tight that it rubs against the skin
- Prolonged sitting or activity in a soiled diaper
- A reaction to certain types of diaper material or baby wipes
- A reaction to certain soaps or lotions used on the baby during diaper changes
- A reaction to specific medications, either administered directly to the baby or fed through the mother's breast milk
Naturally, babies suffering "nappy rash" are bound to become fussy and cry, and it might appear at first you are unable to console your child and relieve him. That said, regardless of how the irritation arose, it's important not to beat yourself up over it. Diaper irritations are a normal, albeit frustrating part of child-rearing, and if you keep a clear head and a positive outlook, you'll find you can not only conquer the problem, but work toward preventing severe outbreaks in the future. The key lies in remaining vigilant and knowing how which products you use for changing and care affect your child, for better and for worse.
Treat Rash Symptoms With a Smile
Babies are smart, and they take cues from the environment and people around them. If your child suspects you are upset, it will likely take longer to resolve his diaper rash. Keep the mood bright at all times - sing to your child, and talk in a manner that makes him react well. One of the best things to do to treat skin irritation is to keep the diaper area cool and dry and clean. Change often, and check your child after he goes down for a nap. It's common for babies to wet while sleeping because they are relaxed, and you may have an easier time replacing the nappy this way.
Remember, too, never to apply a diaper to wet skin, and if you find irritation continues you may consider changing your brand of wipes, lotion, or rash cream. Organic and natural baby skincare could be a suitable option.
These precious months with your baby won't last; your child will be out of diapers and potty training before you realize it. Keeping a positive attitude will help you create fonder memories of this time with your baby.
Kathryn Lively is a freelance writer specializing in articles on natural baby products and a natural diaper rash cure.
