Let's face it changing diapers is not much fun and you long to start potty training. However, this is something that can't be rushed. You have to be sure your child is ready. If you push the issue it usually ends in tears and frustrations (could be both yours and your child).
There is no golden rule that says you must begin potty training at a particular age. All children are individual. Also potty training boys can often begin later than girls and it can take longer. This article will help you evaluate whether your child is ready.
Some level of communication skills is vital. Does the child understand the meaning of basic words such as wash, dry, wet, clean, dirty, stand and sit? Can they understand and follow simple instructions such "pick up the bricks and put them in the toy box"? Or do they need added guidance or repeated instructions? Are they able to communicate their needs to you? Do they mainly point and say a few words (and you guess or interpret the rest) or can they string some meaningful words together, perhaps even sentences?
You want to see some sign that the child's bowel and urinary control functions are developing. Does the diaper need changed every one/two hours or is the child able to go two/three hours or longer without soiling the diaper.
Is your child able to sit quietly? For instance, if you were to read a story would they sit and listen attentively or would they fidget, ignore you or even wander off after a few minutes? What you are looking for is a consistent pattern not the odd occasion when they are restless.
How independent is the child? Can they do some tasks all by themselves, such as pulling up their pants? Or do they need adult assistance?
Your answers to the above questions will help you decide whether your child is ready for potty training. Remember, you should answer truthfully not give an answer you think you should.
Make no mistake about it, potty training boys and girls can be a stress free experience for both you and your child if you start when the child is ready and not before!
Penny Crane is a mother of three young boys. She runs a Mother and Toddler Club. Learn how to fast track potty training boys with no fuss and stress.
